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The Root Of Anger – Fear

At the end of the day, fear is usually the fundamental source of anger and it is more often than not the root of the problem when you have difficulty managing your anger, when you have issues of dealing with substance abuse or you are suffering with some kind of mental illness.

When you eventually discover exactly how to overcome this fear you will be taking the first steps to gaining control of your anger, and therefore, the rest of your life.

The use of rational self-talk methods is one of the best known ways of dealing and coming to terms with fear. If you are the kind of person who is very negative in thoughts, forever settling for what will be will be, you will need to adopt a whole new attitude and do you know why?

It’s because in the majority of cases, you can actually do something to prevent the happenings if you want to and if you really put your mind to it.

Thinking in a negative way gets you absolutely nowhere and can often increase the chances of you going over the top and exploding completely when your anger develops.

When you refuse at any cost to see the positive side of things you are only showing how shallow in the mind you are and the constant belief that you are hopeless will ensure that your anger is allowed to rule you as a person and the associated problems will never cease to exist.

For example, you have a few beers in a bar on a night out with some friend, and then you get in your car to drive home and during the journey you get pulled over by the police. In this instance, you are the one that has set yourself up to fail. Why didn’t you get a cab back or ask someone who had not been drinking alcohol to drive you home?

The best and only way forward is to change what you are able to change and leave alone what you cannot do anything about. Take each day as it comes. There really is no point in allowing eruptions of anger to take place for something that happened last week or last month. It has been and gone and you cannot do anything about it so let it go and concentrate on the next twenty four hours.

Learning to appreciate what you already have and what you do is much more important than stressing yourself about things which are out of your control. Each and every one of us has difficult decisions to make in life and this may sometimes also involve solving a problem as we go along. As long as you take the necessary steps the world will not fall apart so make sure you evaluate the problem with care.

Work out exactly what the problem involves, pull out all the stops in looking at the resources you have available to deal with the problem and then get on with it straight away. If you put it off it will only make matters worse. When the outcome is successful, give yourself a well earned pat on the back as a reward.

If the problem is not solved, this does not automatically make your life unlivable. It simply means the problem has to be further addressed. Life in general is full of ups and downs and we all have to deal with our share of problems.

Try not to let your emotions get the better of you by allowing your anger to take over. Don’t forget, although fear is the root of anger and once mastered you will know you are on your way to victory, it is also healthy when used in a sensible manner. Sensible being the operative word.

Kevin Sinclair is the publisher and editor of My-Personal-Growth.com, a site that provides information and articles for self improvement and personal growth and development.

5 More Powerful Creative Visualization Tips To Transform Your Life

Visualization is the proven method of creation. It’s visualization that gets the law of attraction working in your favor. You think about what you want and you get it. That’s the simplest way to describe the process.

By imagining your life as you want it to be, and making this image absolutely real in vivid detail in your mind, you set the stage for the universal law of attraction to collaborate with you and lead you to your own pot of gold, whatever that means to you.

The movie “The Secret” introduced the law of attraction to millions of people all over the world. But the law is a natural law that’s been around since the beginning of time. The law of attraction has always been accessible but few know how to turn on the tap to turn dreams into reality.

Early self-help authors like Genevieve Behrend, Joseph Murphy, Neville Goddard, and Norman Vincent Peale recognized the power of visualization to activate the law of attraction in bringing favorable results.

Here are 1o more creative visualization tips to help you to use your own unlimited power to create more of the kind of results in life that you truly want.

1. Create a reminder. Make visualization a daily practice. Schedule it into your routine. Make the time for this important activity, just as you always find time to eat. It’s not enough to visualize once or twice. You’ll get the best results when you make it part of your way of life. That’s how to shape your world the way you want it.

2. Put yourself in the picture. Whenever you visualize, make it big and bold and as life-like as possible. This means placing yourself in the picture doing the things you anticipate doing and enjoying the process. This is like take a vague or distant image and casting it upon a giant motion picture screen right before your eyes.

3. Believe in your ability to pull it off. You’ve got to have a dream if you want to make your dream come true and you can’t do that unless you believe in yourself regardless of circumstances. If you don’t believe in yourself, how can you expect anybody else to believe in you?

4. Believe that what you want is on its way. This is a critical component. So many of us our unsure about whether things will even work out, that we send out conflicting vibrations and consequently get mixed results. For those who attain one result after another, a belief in the process is crucial. It means a leap of faith, particularly in the beginning, but that’s what you must have. The absence of faith is doubt, a certain killer of desires and dreams, large and small.

5. Assume ownership. Become the person you will be when you’ve materialized your goal. Don’t hold back wishing hoping, even praying for that day when you can say — “Yahoo! I did it!” Claim it as your reality now. Be the person you’ll be when you’re the chief of staff of the owner of that candy-apple red Ferrari. When you’ve accepted the result wholeheartedly, the universe kicks into action, bringing forth things, people and circumstances that never could have happened any other way.

There you have it — another 5 creative visualization tips. Take these gems and apply them in your life. Make the law of attraction work for you.

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How To Invest In Yourself – Your Mind, Body, Soul And Planet

Investing in furthering your education? What is this all about and why should you do it? Don’t you think it sounds a bit tedious? ABSOLUTELY, NO WAY! It is all about your life and your continuing existence, not to mention the future of your family, your community and the planet as a whole. What could possibly be more exciting than this?

The reasons for furthering your education beyond that of high school or university are plentiful. You are not only likely to reach a higher position career wise, but you will have all manner experiences, opportunities and new doors opening to you. It is a sad but true fact that most folk would agree that they were not properly equipped for the big wide world in a thorough way when at school.

Continuing with your education will make sense of the saying about the world being your oyster. Your potential will be unleashed and your talents revealed which may well lead you to success in life and the fulfillment of all your dreams.

Awareness of what action to take, or even not to take is the key. You can change your environment by being able to do things that others can’t because they do not have the knowledge. When you are well informed it makes you less worried about change so many more options are open to you.

Learning is in itself a skill. Having an open mind about new ideas is vital to the development of your personality. Discover your particular strengths and build on them. By the same token, be aware of your weaknesses and get rid of them. Develop your passions, look for new trends and consider every new opportunity you are presented with.

Use what you have learned and act upon it. Action is just as important (if not more so) than learning because if you do not act on what you have learned, nothing is likely to change.

Although creating wealth is a very good reason to learn, it’s not all about money. It’s about the ultimate lifestyle opportunity of being able to choose.

Your improved lifestyle can create health and well being, so find and work on your artistic passion and nurture your inner being by meditation and spirituality.

Its all about discovering ways to look after you new life and wealth, by legally and properly constructed financial tools such as trusts which not only protect your assets but teach you the tax secrets of the rich.

Learning about new technologies, and coming up with inventive ways of using what you have learned will save you time and money. Find out about new ways to preserve energy and lessen your impact on the planet. It’s all about creating generational changes and learning to work things out and analyze the facts yourself.

Naturally, learning is not cheap and some seminars and courses can be quite expensive. However, if you consider this expense to be an investment in yourself you will soon realize how worthwhile this is to help you to live life to the full.

Kevin Sinclair is the publisher and editor of Be Successful News, a site that provides information and articles on how to succeed in your own home or small business.

3 Dirty Secrets Self-Help Gurus Don’t Want Beginners To Know

Do you find yourself taking the first step to changing your life by purchasing one self-help product after another only to discover they give you a lot of theory but very little on how to actually use the information on a regular basis?

For years I ran into the same problem. I desperately wanted to improve my life but often found it difficult to turn their theory into something I could use every day. There was something missing.

After going through one book after another, buying one “guaranteed” self-help product after another, I finally figured out what was missing. It really wasn’t that the information was wrong or necessarily incomplete. I found three things that almost made what I was reading useless.

It’s like a financial advisor telling you that you need to save money if you want to retire but not telling you things you can do to save money on a monthly basis.

Almost everything I read was very good at explaining the theory behind the idea or concept but very bad at then showing me what I needed to do.

I love theory but I also need examples, exercises, and step-by-step instructions on how to apply the theory. I bet you’ll agree that the majority of people learn best this way as well. Most self-help products fall short in these areas.

Finally, after working my way through all the theoretical information, I almost NEVER found a product or read a book that showed me how to take what I’ve just read and integrate all the pieces together then USE them in my life on a daily basis.

Let me give you an example. I’ll use the concept of the Law of Attraction. I’ve watched DVDs about it and read many books dealing with the idea. They were all very good at telling me the Law of Attraction simply states that “like attracts like,” that whatever you keep in the forefront of your thoughts is what you tend to attract into your life. Powerful information, right? OK, but now what? How can you use that information??

I had other questions like:
- How do I actually use the Law of Attraction?
- What steps are required and in what order?
- How often do I use the information, daily, twice a day, constantly?

I rarely found answers to those questions or had to spend money on several products to get all my questions answered. One source may have a limited method to follow, one might give me a few simple exercises, or more frequently I’d get none of those answers.

Theory without practical application is almost useless. If you don’t know how to apply what you’ve read to your life you might as well not have read the material. If you can’t get a good grasp on the material through easy to follow examples, exercises, and instructions, you’ve wasted your money and more importantly your time. If you can’t apply the material to your life on a daily basis, how can you ever change your life?

A good, useful self-help product must be able to answer the following three questions with a resounding Yes!

1. Is there real-world application along with the theory?
2. Are there step-by-step instructions, exercises, and examples?
3. Are the different parts integrated into a system that can be used on a daily basis?

The more no’s you have, the faster you should run away from the product!

All the theory in the world is useless unless you can apply it quickly and easily on a regular basis. You’ve wasted your money, time and sometimes left feeling lost and betrayed if you can’t use what you’ve purchased.

You CAN improve your life, you CAN achieve your goals, you CAN get everything you want in life if you’re given the proper tools and shown how to use them. If you can answer the three questions above with a Yes, you can rest easy knowing you’ve found the right self-help product for you.

Jeff Baker is the author of “The ABUNDANCE NOW System: How to Master the Secrets of Lasting Success In Just 20-30 Minutes Per Day”. Drop by http://www.AbundanceNow.com for more details and receive a free copy of “Discovering Your Life Purpose.”

Forgiving Infidelity and Cheating – Can We Really Forget?

Life has many facets that challenge our lives. Some of these challenges seem to be directed toward our very livelihood. They may be presented to us in our work, projects we undertake or situations we face on a daily basis. And yes, they can present an impact in matters of the heart.

“Once burned” as the saying goes. The question is if you forgive, can you really forget?

There is no valid reason for cheating, but these are some common excuses:

#1 He or she did it to me first. I’m just paying them back!

Really? The one doing the paying back is the one most likely to end up hurting an unintended person, themselves

#2 I wasn’t getting what I needed at home.

Why not discuss what is missing or what is needed to keep you home like a big boy or girl? Listen to what is said and talk with (not at) one another about ways to rectify matters. Mind reading is not a requirement for maintaining a relationship.

Compromise with your partner if necessary, but avoid outside compensations. Honesty is one of the most important factors. Be honest. The truth will set you free. If you still don’t get it at home set yourself free. Why torture yourself or your mate

#3 I didn’t plan it. It just happened!

Bullcrap! Your little dalliance may not have been premeditated, but nothing just happens. Two responsible people blessed with the gift of a mind know exactly what is about to, or will transpire in a given situation. Unlike animals acting solely on instinct, humans have the ability to reason. At least most of us do.

#4 I don’t know why it happened!

Well I do! You wanted to do it! Sometimes selfishness, thoughtlessness and lack of self-control, in addition to not thinking of those who will be hurt by our indiscretions, may be the reason. The real reason? Lust.

These are some lame excuses, don’t you think? Whatever the reason, if you opt to forgive your significant other for his or her disconcerting behavior, will you forget what happened and move on? Can the trust that was defiled be rekindled? Does it change the relationship?

The answer to that question is “most likely.”

You have a partner that has cheated once… will he or she cheat again? The answer, “probably so.”

Love is totality. Nothing good is easy or perfect. You have to work, toil and build on all that encircle the relationship. Think of the relationship as a system. The components integrate to form a harmonious interaction. This is a process that is ongoing, which means it has no point of completion.

Threats to cause the system to malfunction always exist. The work is keeping up the maintenance. The number of repairs made depend on the foundation and the integrity of the work utilized to build the system. Good maintenance reduces the expense for faulty repairs. The point is that if you are willing to work at it, the system will last a lifetime. Your relationship will last a lifetime.

Seeking outside components (infidelity) to replace faulty equipment may damage the system beyond repair (lack of trust). Sugar is not a substitute for gas. A bolt is not a substitute for a nut and a nut is worthless if the screw is not the right one.

It takes an exceptional person to forgive without reproach. That is not an easy task.

Are the following excuses real? They could be.

o I had a flat tire and I forgot to replace the spare
o This accident tied up traffic for hours
o I didn’t have an appointment, so I had to wait at the hair salon
o I had to work late to finish up paperwork
o The staff meeting took longer than expected

Will that little mishap a while back cause doubt about his or her fidelity? Will these instances add fuel to the spark that was ignited in the past?

Unfounded accusations can really cause the spark to become an all points alarm blaze. Without trust the relationship is as good as dead. No one can answer any of these questions except the parties actually experiencing them.

The responsible thing to do is avoid being placed in situations that you may regret for the rest your life. Most of us remember the one that got away.

Communicate with the person you profess to love. If there are difficulties, try resolving them together. Finding comfort in another’s arms is not the answer. Love is not a game. Wounds from a broken relationship take time to heal and the scars can last forever.

If you are not willing to keep up the maintenance on your relationship let go before the wounds deepen.
Sometimes moving on is the best for all concerned. Forgiving is easy. Forgetting is another story.

(c) 2008 Deborrah Cooper. Deborrah has authored dozens of relationship articles and advice columns on Ask HeartBeat!, which focuses on modern relationships for teens and adults. Her dating guide Sucka Free Love! provides street-smart, hilarious insight into the toughest issues facing singles today. Check out The Sucka Free Dating Radio Talk Show on Wednesday night at 7:00 pm PST.

Simple Steps Towards Learning

Quite often I get asked if there is a simple thing that you can do to keep a child’s interest in science and learning going. It’s an issue many parents and even some teachers have to deal with regularly. Don’t fret! It may not always be easy but maintaining a child’s thirst for knowledge is simple.

One the most important ways a person will learn something is by recognizing an action and committing it to memory. What this is referred to commonly is called “learning from example” and it’s the first way you start to learn from our families when we are babies. We learn to speak this way.

As an adult makes noises with their mouths and perform certain actions babies make the connection between what different sounds mean and soon they begin speaking and learning words on their own. This type of learning doesn’t end with speech.

By the time we begin to go to school and enter our first classes we are no longer learning as many life’s basic things, like language, from our parents and siblings and begin to learn about social interaction. From this age until a child is approximately twelve years old is a crucial period in their learning for their entire life.

This is the time when we are learning how to learn. Whether you learn classic “good study skills” like taking notes and memorization or maybe you develop a “photographic memory” it is in those early years of schooling when your ability to learn is honed.

Without the proper tools, it becomes increasingly difficult as we get older to learn new things. Therefore it is extremely important that when children are young that you do what you can to keep up their “thirst for knowledge” and here are a few simple ways you can do that by setting an example for your kids.

* Discover Something
Do something with your kids. Whether it’s an everyday activity or a trip to the aquarium make comments about what you see. For example saying, “Look at that fish!” or pointing out a construction crane in the city. Observation is probably the most important part of learning.

* Ask Questions
It is important that you show a child that it is OK to be inquisitive. The best way to find out an answer is to ask a question, right? There is a saying, “The only dumb question is the one you don’t ask.”

Also, this way your child can see that it’s alright to not know things and that not knowing something is nothing to be embarrassed about. You truly should never tell a child not to ask questions.

* Look for Answers
If you can’t get an answer to your questions now, research them later. In this age of easy information access you can discover the answer to just about any questions online. Do this with your children to show them that it is important to search for knowledge. Now your kids can see that answers are within reach.

* Go Beyond
When you discover something, whether it’s a weird bug outside or you looked up “how bees fly” on the internet, you should always go one extra step and try to learn something extra. OK, you learned a little about bees flying but where does honey come from? It is important to always be searching for more knowledge.

Once you have a child that is comfortable learning they may begin to get excited about specific topics. Many kids get excited about dinosaurs and airplanes but if your daughter happens to be interested in bugs don’t discourage them.

Once they reach age 16 they’ll probably be interested in many different topics but you can be glad knowing that whatever they choose to study they will excel.

Sara Jones was a fine student but science was a source of frustration she didn’t want her kids to suffer. She met Rick and Amanda Birmingham and realized their grasp of everyday science was the secret to making science fun. To learn more about the solution to science stress visit www.SuperFunScience.com

Desire – The Vehicle of Your Success

“There are no limitations to the mind except those we acknowledge.” — Napoleon Hill

We all have wants. You may want a better job, you may want better health, you may want a bigger house or you may want more money. How many of these things have you gotten by just wanting them? I bet none.

If wanting was enough, you’d have everything thing you ever wished for. If wanting isn’t enough, what is?

You must have an intense, burning desire to achieve your goals.

How is desire different from wanting? Wanting is a simple, passing wish. A burning desire, on the other hand, powers you to be willing to do whatever it takes to accomplish your goal. It keeps your goal in the forefront of your mind every single day until you accomplish it.

What’s different between you and someone successful? It’s that they’ve decided they’re going to do whatever it takes, for however long it requires, to achieve their goals.

After making that commitment, it becomes a simple matter of persistence over time using techniques that become habit and therefore automatic; an intense, burning desire.

There are Six Steps to turn your wants into desires into reality:

–Fix clearly in your mind exactly what goal you desire. Be definite as to the goal. For example, “I earn a 10% raise at work by my next review.”

–Determine exactly what you intend to give in return for achieving your goal. You can’t get something for nothing. You must determine what you’re going to give up to reach your goal. (e.g. time, effort, money)

–Establish a definite date when you intend to achieve your goal. You need to have a specific time frame for when you’ll accomplish your goal. (e.g. “I earn a 10% raise by July 1st, 20xx”)

–Create a definite plan on paper for carrying out your goal and begin at once. It doesn’t matter whether you are ready or not, to put this plan into action at once and correct as you go.

–Write out a clear, concise statement of the goal you intend to achieve, name the time limit for its acquisition, state what you intend to give in return for achieving the goal, and describe clearly the plan through which you intend to achieve it.

–Read your written statement aloud at least twice daily; once before going to bed at night and once after waking in the morning. As you read, see and feel and believe yourself already achieving your goal.

These Six Steps require no great effort, no specialized education, no minimum income, only an intense desire to set and achieve your goal. However, the successful application of these steps does require you to understand that success can not be left to chance.

You must realize that those people who’ve already reached a higher level from a lower did so through desiring and planning before they reached their goal. There is one quality that you must posses to reach your goal. As Napoleon Hill put it, you must have

“…definiteness of purpose, the knowledge of what you want and a burning desire to posses it.”

Thomas Edison, in his pursuit of the electric light bulb, made more than ten thousand attempts before he was successful. Where would we be today if he had stopped at his five hundredth attempt?

Fuel for your desire is keeping in mind the fact that you are not defeated until defeat has been accepted as reality. And where does this defeat take place?

In the one location where all your reality starts; your mind. If you accept no defeat through a burning desire, you must accomplish your goal.

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Imagination – Driving Your Success

“Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life’s coming attractions.” – Albert Einstein

Your imagination one of the most important parts of your plan to achieve your goals. It’s literally the workroom of the mind where all your plans are fashioned. All great discoveries, inventions or accomplishments started in the imagination.

How can the imagination help you achieve your goals? First, we need to discuss the two types of imagination.

There are two types of imagination:
– synthetic
– creative

The synthetic imagination allows you to rearrange or combine existing concepts, ideas, or plans into new combinations. This facility creates nothing, it merely rearranges existing ideas into new patterns. This type of imagination is used mostly by inventors.

The creative imagination is the faculty through with “hunches” or “inspirations” are based. All new ideas are generated through this type of imagination. It works best through the conscious mind when powered by a strong, burning desire.

In most people this faculty has become weak and underpowered though it hasn’t disappeared completely. Like any skill, it must be practiced on a regular basis to grow stronger.

You’ll mostly use the synthetic imagination to reach your goals. Transformation of your burning desires into real-world results requires the use of a plan, a set of step-by-step ordered actions to reach your goals. These plans are formed with the help of the synthetic imagination.

Once you have used your imagination to bring forth a set of detailed plans based upon your desires, you’ve given concrete, physical form to your non-physical desires.

Remember that the moment you transform your non-physical desires into a set of written, details plans, you’ve actually taken the first step enabling you to convert your thoughts into their physical counterparts.

Once you get an idea or thought in your head centering around a goal powered by a burning desire, it becomes larger and more powerful under its own power. You give life and action to them and they take on a life of their own sweeping away all obstacles between you and your goal.

The first step to harnessing the power of your imagination is to use affirmations. An affirmation is simply a positive statement that something is already true.

Affirmations must follow The 3 Ps:
– Positive – they must be positive
– Present – they must be in the present as that’s all the mind knows
– Personal – they must be about YOU and no one else

The subconscious filters out negation words like “not”. It only interprets actions or things. If you try an affirmation like:
I am not smoking.

The mind filters out “not” and only hears:
I am smoking.

Phrase your affirmations in the positive:
I am healthy and smoke-free.

Repeat your affirmations as you can throughout the day, vividly seeing them powered by a deep-seated burning desire as being true in your imagination and the attainment of your goal is just around the corner!

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Turning Your Thoughts Into Things

“Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe it can achieve” – W. Clement Stone

How many times have you heard that hard work alone brings success? If you just work hard enough, you’ll be recognized and rewarded for your efforts…

That might have worked fifty or sixty years ago but times have changed.

Hard work alone does not insure success, it only insures that you’ve worked hard. Many people have worked hard their entire lives yet retire with only a meager retirement, if anything at all.

What, then, insures your success if hard work alone won’t?

It all starts with a single thought.

Nothing, absolutely nothing you do from walking, eating, reading, knitting, writing a poem, or putting on your shoes happens until a thought, conscious or unconscious, occurs in your mind.

In order to achieve any goal you must learn a single, basic concept; thoughts BECOME things.

Thoughts are the foundation upon which you build the framework for attainment of your goal. Every thought has a physical manifestation in your body; every thought produces physical substances called neuro-transmitting enzymes that have instant effects on how you feel and who you are at the cellular level.

Don’t believe me?

Right now, think of biting into a big, juicy lemon or think about fingernails slowly running down a chalk board and tell me you didn’t have an immediate, physical response!

If you can have that kind of immediate response from a simple thought, just imagine what you can accomplish with a focused, burning desire backed by faith and persistence!

Life is NOT fair, there’s just life. But that should be a comforting thought. If life were fair all things would be equal and all people would be equal. The logical conclusion is that there could be no social movement up or down, no bettering of yourself nor worsening, no getting healthier, just stagnation. Because life isn’t fair it means you have the ability to control whether you improve your life or make it worse but at least you have the ability to make change.

What about external influences which you have no control over? Viktor E. Frankl, a concentration camp survivor, put it best in his book “Man’s Search for Meaning,”

“The one thing you can’t take away from me is the way I choose to respond to what you do to me. The last of one’s freedoms is to choose ones attitudes in any given circumstance.”

The only absolute freedom you have is choosing how you react to life. And how you choose starts with a thought.

Who you are right now is the sum total of what you’ve thought about up to this moment. If you’re not satisfied with who you are right now, the good news is who you will be from now on is entirely up to you. Change your thoughts and you can start changing yourself.

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Faith – Fueling Your Success

Every day you desire something; a bigger house, a new car, better health, or a higher paying job. You can want these things with a burning desire but they don’t always come to pass do they? Every morning you wake and you’re still living in a cramped house, driving a beat-up car, and tired all the time.

If a burning desire’s not enough, what’s the next step? What will help you attain all that you desire?

Faith.

I’m not talking about religious faith though it can be a factor. I’m talking about a faith which can be created by anyone. It’s a state of mind created by repeated affirmations or instructions given to the subconscious mind in the form of autosuggestion. Autosuggestion coming from oneself, the repetition of verbal or sub-vocal messages as a means of changing behavior.

What exactly does this mean? Through the process just described, you convince the subconscious that the fitness goal which you desire to achieve, you will achieve, and it will act upon that belief by passing back to you concrete plans for achieving that goal in the form of faith.

If you can convince your subconscious of your desires, your goals, and develop a faith in those desires then those thoughts must turn into reality. You convince the subconscious by emotionalizing your thoughts backed by faith. When that happens the subconscious immediately begins to translate your thoughts into their physical counterparts.

All this means is that through simple, repetitive techniques you can retrain your conscious and unconscious mind in a positive, goal oriented manner to overcome old habits and create new goal-oriented habits. These new habits become ingrained and automatic, habits you believe in to the point that you’re 100% convinced you can obtain your goals and nothing will get in your way.

Below is a formula for building faith.

Building Faith Formula
1. I absolutely believe I have the ability to achieve any goal in life. I demand of myself persistent, consistent, continuous action toward its attainment.

2. I realize the dominating thoughts of my mind will eventually manifest themselves in physical action, and gradually transform themselves into physical reality. I will concentrate my thoughts at least twice daily upon the goal I intend to achieve, creating a clear, vivid mental picture in my mind of the goal having already been achieved, now, in the present.

3. I know through the principle of autosuggestion that any desire I persistently hold in my mind will eventually seek expression through some practical means of attaining it.

4. I have clearly written down a description of my goal and will never stop trying until I have developed sufficient self-confidence for its attainment.

5. I will commit this formula to memory and repeat it aloud twice a day, once in the morning after waking and once before going to bed, with full faith that it will gradually influence my thoughts and actions so that I will become a self-reliant and successful person.

Faith is the fuel that powers your burning desire for your goal. It’s what keeps you moving towards your goal with the deep-rooted knowledge that as long as you persist, keeping your goal in mind as much as possible, nothing can stop you from the achievement of your dreams.

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